Just because you have been swinging for quite some time, trying new things and enjoying pleasant experiences, it doesn’t mean your spouse is feeling the same pleasure at all times. This is exactly why maintaining a healthy communication between you and your spouse becomes that much more important when you are swinging.

It is only natural that you feel uncomfortable in a certain situation and feel otherwise in another. If you are constantly trying new things, especially in swinging, it would be best to check with your spouse how they feel about the experiences often. This way, the swinging experiences you two are having can remain mutual and both parties are enjoying the great benefits this lifestyle brings. If you and your spouse have been swinging for a while, there is no doubt that both of you are committed to and are comfortable with the lifestyle in the first place. As both of you continue your journey, check with each other to see what interest them the most and what turn them off. After a while, you will have a perfect understanding of what to do and what to avoid for the sake of mutual happiness and pleasure, and your swinging experiences will be so much better.

Another good thing about maintaining healthy communication when you are swinging is exchange of ideas. There may be fantasies or forms both your spouse and you want to try and communicating with each other will help bring these fantasies to reality. I remembered the time when a friend of mine happily told me that her wife is looking for two female singles to fulfill his fantasy. He made his fantasy comes true because apparently his wife is fantasizing about seeing him with multiple females and watch them play with each other as well.